I was recently hooked up with the tv show sex and the city, and I saw a scene in season five where Samantha wanted to use her wand. However, it died on her before being able to use it as she still had a warranty; she went back to the store where she bought it. When Sam got there to return her “vibrator,” the store owner informed her they didn’t sell those and what was holding was a “neck massager” Sam then sarcastically agreed. The owner allowed her to exchange the product, and she then proceeded to help other women get their “neck massagers.” So, I thought it would be great to have a small guide about wands for people who haven’t tried their wonders.

As one of the most popular toys worldwide, a wand vibrator is made up of a rounded vibrating ball attached to a handle that massages your body. They are used for external stimulation and are NOT designed to be inserted anywhere in your body. Before they were used as sex toys, people used them -and still do- to relieve sore muscles as they are the perfect combination of strong yet gentle vibrations.

Wands are perfect for anyone who wants to have a powerful orgasm, the significant part of wand vibrators is that they are gender neutral, and everyone can benefit from having one of these great toys. They will help you spice up your solo play or your couple time!!

The massager can be used to stimulate (but is not limited to) the:

• nipples

• vulva

• clitoris

• neck, shoulders, and back

• legs

• muscles

• breasts

• inner thighs

• penis and testicles

• buttocks

• perineum

Wands are also fantastic for BDSM play.  The long handle means that you can easily lash them to someone’s inner thigh or torso, pressing them up against the genitals for forced orgasm or tease and denial scenes, but remember to talk to the other person and get consent and mutual agreement.

Here’s what to consider when buying a wand

1. Noise: Do you live with more people? Do you need something discrete or a wild beast that is super loud?

2. Water Resistance: most wands are not waterproof, so consider that when buying a toy Pomi wand is a waterproof IPX6 so you can have some fun while in the shower.

3. Size: okay, the difference between wands can be seen with two examples: small, light toys like Pomi wand or big guys like Madame. You should consider the space you have to store the toy and which one will feel more comfortable for you.

4. Usability: most of the wands come in different presentations, so my advice here is to choose one with different settings that you can adjust and get the best results. Wands are known to be super powerful toys, so you have to consider this when buying one.

5. Material: Vibrators are not regulated by the FDA, meaning manufacturers are not mandated to use body-safe materials. This is incredibly important to consider when buying any toy; we have some made from silicone and ABS plastic. My recommendation here is to narrow your search by only looking for those made with body-safe materials.Especially if you’re balling on a budget, make sure your wand is higher quality and body-safe silicone (either medical or food grade.)

6. Power source:when it comes to wands, you have a few kinds: the wands that use batteries, the ones that can be charged using a USB cable, and those that can be plug-in into the wall. We need to understand what it represents to get either or.

Time for the magic trick with the magic wand

Let’s talk about some ways you can enjoy using your wand, but first and foremost, if you do not feel comfortable or excited about using one, it is okay to pass. The most important thing while using sex toys is your comfort and consent.

• Safety

Before using the toy, please read up on the safety instructions included in the guide that comes with your toy; this will ensure that you properly know how to use it. Clean the toy with warm water and dry it with a clean towel before using it; even though the wand is new, it is always necessary to clean it; this will also help you to spot any malfunction. For your safety, do not insert the wand into the vagina or anus, as they are not designed to be used internally. Let’s avoid a visit to the ER.

• Body massage

Sometimes our partners or ourselves might be a bit too tired after a long day at work. It is great to have a relaxing time. You can use the wand massager for the intent it was supposedly created and massage sore or tired muscles, getting a bit of pain relief and probably a happy ending!!

• Tease your whole body

Wands are fantastic as they can be used to massage your whole body, get this opportunity to tease and thrill lesser-known erogenous zone, like the neck, inner thighs, behind the knees, around the breast, and many more that you probably didn’t know. Grab your wand and explore your body!!

• Couples play

As I mentioned, these toys are great because they are gender neutral. You can take turns giving massages to each other, try to tease spots that will get both of you aroused, and use oil massagers, the wand, and pair it with your hands. Touching your significant other can be a very sensual experience. You can also use it to tease erogenous zones and different body parts.

• During sex

These are great toys to use while having sex since they can pinpoint your stimulation experience, watch your partner while using it on themselves or use it while doing the act. It’s always a good idea to try out multiple positions with your wand vibrator during penetrative sex to find what you like most. If something hurts or doesn’t feel right, let your partner know immediately so that you can fix it and focus on getting your orgasm back. The limit is your imagination.

• Lube and more lube

Please, pretty please, do NOT use water as a lube; water is too thin; therefore, it gets dry quickly, and you can get hurt. The use of lube does not mean that you can get wet on your own; it just means the toy will work better, and you will feel better, trust me on this one, whether you want a quickie or a full session, lube is an essential part of the moment, the vibration will feel more intense and more comfortable too. Remember, our genitals are the most sensitive part of our body and can get irritated faster than any other part, so you must take good care of them while self-pleasuring or partner playing

Cleaning time!

Treat your toys with respect, take care of them, clean them before and after every use, and keep them well stored; if you want your pleasurable friends to keep you company for years to come, you must keep them well taken care of; Wand vibrators are no exception.

 If your wand is waterproof, you can wash it well with soap, water, or sex toy cleaner. If not, give it a good wipe-down with a cloth and a little soap or cleanser. Make sure not to come into contact with any electrical parts. You can also use a high-quality toy cleaner to wash the vibrator, then store it in the bag it (likely) came with to prevent dust or other contaminants from collecting. That way, it’s clean and ready to enjoy the next time you want to play with it.

My bullet recommendations from Honey Play Box

Pomi wand is a petite yet powerful wand, and it’s also super discreet and cute so that you can have it in your drawer or night table without care.

Madame is a stylish wand and super vintage. It has an extra button to add a boost to its power, so it is perfect for getting off or relaxing.

In conclusion

Wand vibrators are an outstanding choice because they’re versatile, easy to use, and offer straightforward yet impressive orgasms every time. Not only that, but they perform double-duty as actual body massagers for sore muscles, too! Don’t miss out on the opportunity to try out this toy; I’m confident that you’d love it.

Wrote by: Kat A. 
Honey Play Box Editorial Team