A rabbit vibrator changed my life. It all started when I was watching that famous episode of Sex and The City when Charlotte buys the rabbit and then becomes so obsessed with it that she stops going out because she is enjoying it so much. Although giving up your social life for a sex toy is an extreme reaction, it did pique my curiosity. I thought that it would be just what I needed to improve my sentimental life.

Let me explain.

I confess that sometimes I haven't always made the best decisions as far as choosing my lovers is concerned. When I discovered the rabbit vibrator several years ago and read many positive reviews from women who were loving it, I was convinced that if I could take care of my own immediate sexual needs with a rabbit vibrator, it would help me to make better decisions regarding my human sexperiences.

It's kind of like going to the supermarket when you are hungry. You end up buying lots of unhealthy junk, just because you are famished. Whereas if you go food shopping after a meal, you will probably buy healthier food and make much better choices.

After I bought my very first rabbit vibrator, I must admit that it didn't work for me straight away. In fact, It took me a while to get used to the idea of masturbating with a sex toy. I always say that buying a sex toy is like joining the gym. It's the first step in the right direction but it's not enough. After the purchase of a sex toy or signing up for the gym, you have to put the work in to make it happen and enjoy the results you are seeking.

I actually didn't get to grips with how to use a rabbit vibrator until I made a mind-body connection as far as masturbation was concerned. I learned that I needed to awaken my erotic imagination to make it work for me. To the point where my fantasy was the protagonist of my pleasure and the sex toy I was using was merely a tool to help me reach planet orgasm.

A rabbit vibrator is a dual stimulator with an insertable phallus and an external clitoral stimulator. I used to think that there was only one way to use it, but over the years, I have learned that there are many more ways to enjoy it. In fact, it might be one of the most versatile sex toys you can have in your possession.

Keep reading to discover why!

Blended Orgasms

With my first rabbit, I used to always use it in a conventional way. That is to say, with the shaft inside my vagina and the 'rabbit' part in contact with my clitoral glans. I enjoyed the sensation of the vibrating phallus inside me, but it was those beloved bunny ears on the clitoral stimulator that made it memorable. Despite the fact that it felt highly stimulating on a physiological level,  it wasn't until I connected with my erotic imagination that I was able to enjoy it to the point of climax. I used to imagine that I was being penetrated by someone I really liked while simultaneously enjoying the vibration of the clitoral stimulator on my vulva.

I used to think that I needed dual stimulation in order to climax. That is to say, vaginal stimulation coupled with clitoral stimulation. My first attempts at solo stimulation, of just my clitoris, were quite disappointing. This was because I thought that I needed something inside me to reach orgasm. But then I discovered that I didn't and it blew my mind.

Perineal Stimulation 

What I'm about to describe is actually my favorite way to use a rabbit vibrator and I would strongly encourage you to try this if you haven't already.

Instead of inserting the phallus, I actually like to hold it between my thighs so that the length rests against my perineum. The clitoral stimulator is in contact with my clitoris from a different angle. Not only does it feel amazing but it is perfect for those moments when you don't feel like penetration. It's also nice to experience the clitoral component from another angle and it helps me to engage my erotic imagination and fantasy that there is someone with some very skilful fingers getting to work on me until I reach ecstasy.

Clitoral Stimulation

You can use the shaft of the rabbit vibrator to stimulate your clitoral glans. That is to say, solo stimulation as opposed to dual stimulation. You can use the tip of the phallus if you feel like direct stimulation or you can use the side of the phallus to enjoy a more indirect approach. Another advantage of using the shaft as a clitoral stimulator is the fact that it usually has a bigger and stronger motor than the smaller arm of the toy that is usually used to stimulate the clitoris.

Either way, I love using this technique as a foreplay method before I actually insert the toy. It helps me to get in the mood for penetration and dual stimulation, i.e. the conventional way described above.

Anal Stimulation

Last but not least (or should that be butt not least?)

You can use a rabbit vibrator for anal stimulation. You can insert the phallus in the anus and let the clitoral stimulator rest against the perineum. Safety is even more critical when you use a sex toy for anal stimulation. Anal sex toys must have a wide flared base to prevent them from getting lost in your body.

In the case of a rabbit vibrator, the clitoral stimulator serves as a 'stopper' making it safe for butt play. Another safety point to remember is that you should never insert a toy into the vagina after having been in the anus, to avoid infection. Always wash your sex toys before and after every use.

Once you've ticked the safety boxes, you can lie back and make the most of your rabbit vibrator.

Enjoy!