If there's one thing we need to unlearn in the sex game, it's the idea that anal play of any kind is painful, uncomfortable, or risqué. There's a common misconception that backdoor pleasure isn't for everyone. After all, we're all been raised to believe that our derrieres are dirty places. While anuses can sometimes be unhygienic, they're a part of our bodies that can provide us an immense amount of pleasure, if you use the proper techniques to please and tease them. But how can you please your anus if you've never done it before? One of the best ways is to use a sex toy like an anal vibrator. This article will tell you everything you need to know about anal vibrators, how to use them, and how they can help you attain pleasure in a fresh and unique way!

What is an anal vibrator?

Anal vibrators are exactly what they sound like! According to Masterclass, they "stimulate the nerve endings inside your anus. For penis owners, some anal sex toys are designed to stimulate the prostate. For vulva owners, anal sex toys can apply pressure to the anterior fornix erogenous zone, also known as the A-spot, located inside the vagina between the cervix and the bladder." Which means that regardless of gender or orientation, anyone can use anal vibrators to bring a new flavor to their sex lives.

Why use an anal vibrator?

Look, we get it. Anal vibrators may seem intimidating, even if you've used one before. Like any sex toy, what's important is what they can do for you. So don't focus on the countless techniques or different features just yet. Let's get the basics down first so that you'll trust in an anal vibrator's ability to help your physical and mental well-being through pleasure. In the words of Bustle:

• Anal vibrators can help you get comfortable with stimulating your anus. Think of it as a practice makes perfect scenario. The more you use an anal vibrator, the better your body adjusts and accepts it!

• Anal vibrators can lead you to an amazing orgasm. If you've only pleasured your clitoris or vagina to reach an orgasm before, you're in for a treat! Pleasuring your anus the right way can give you the same blissful release, in a different but equally delicious way!

• Anal vibrators can actually help increase vaginal pleasure! Using an anal vibrator can encourage your vagina to grow wider. So when you're engaging in double-penetration, it'll feel less intimidating and more pleasurable!

How to choose an anal vibrator?

There are a wide range of vibrators out there, including vibrating anal beads, vibrator anal plugs, cock ring anal vibrators, vibrating anal dildos, remote-controlled anal vibrators, and many more!

With so many to choose from, picking an anal vibrator might seem like a daunting process. Together with  Healthline, we're breaking down the things you need to consider when choosing an anal vibrator:

Size: "Go big or go home" doesn't apply here! Going for bigger sizes when you're a beginner might ruin your experience with and perception of anal toys. So, start small and take your time getting comfortable with the vibrator you pick. The key to anal bliss is to take it one step at a time!

Shape: Sex toys can get a little confusing because they come in so many shapes and sizes. For example, you might accidentally buy a vaginal vibrator instead of an anal vibrator! To avoid making this mistake, remember that anal vibrators have a distinct tapered tip to make insertion easier, and a wider base so that you can pull it out easily to avoid it getting stuck. As long as these two characteristics are present, you'll know you're dealing with an anal vibrator, no matter what added features it has. If you're looking for something with all sorts of features, we recommend Jaden. It's a thrusting anal vibrator and vibrating butt plug that'll please your rear end with many vibration modes and thrusting patterns. It'll make you feel like someone is actually hitting you from behind!

Material: This is something you should never forget! An anal vibrator, or any sex toy for that matter, should be made out of a body-safe material like silicone or glass. This will ensure that no bacteria accumulates on the toy and enters your body.

How to use an anal vibrator?

Before using an anal vibrator, make sure to prepare your body both physically and mentally. Give yourself the chance to be a beginner. Be patient and allow yourself to explore the toy with the ultimate goal of finding what makes you feel good.

Then, make sure to get yourself slick with lube to avoid discomfort and risk of injury. You wouldn't want your anal experience to be ruined because you missed a dry patch!

Once you're ready, both physically and mentally, you can turn on your anal vibrator and slowly insert it into your anus. Use the different vibration modes to stimulate the area and explore different angles as well. Your priority should be to find the position you like best and enjoy it!

FAQ

Is it safe to use an anal vibrator?

Yes, anal vibrators are perfectly safe as long as you use plenty of lubrication and you ease them in slowly but surely!

Can I use an anal vibrator with other sex toys?

Absolutely! Anal vibrators can be used with other sex toys like dildos, suction toys, or clitoral vibrators!

How do you clean an anal vibrator?

It's important to keep anal vibrators, and all sex toys in general, clean and properly stored. Make sure to wash them with mild soap and warm water (or sex toy cleaner) to keep the bacteria away! After you've cleaned your vibrator, store it in a clean, dry place and away from direct sunlight and extreme temperatures.If you follow all of these steps, your toys will last as long as possible and the body parts you use them on will be healthy! 

Conclusion

Your anus is a treasure trove of amazing pleasure just waiting to be unlocked, and anal vibrators can be a fun and exciting way to unlock it! Just remember to choose a toy that's safe and comfortable, to prepare your body with plenty of lube, and to practice proper hygiene and maintenance. Enjoy and stay safe!